-Best Man/Bride's Maid Duties-
Here are some guidelines to help the Best
Man to be. Please remember, these are just some of the standard duties. You may
be asked to help in other ways, you may be asked to simply offer moral
support...
Arrange for a bachelor party; whether it is
a dinner or lunch, a weekend, or a wild night out, you are responsible for
arranging the plans as well as the guests.
Help the groom with the formalwear
arrangements. What size does everyone need, where can you pick it all up, etc.
Keep the bride's ring until the
ceremony.
Ensure the groom's timely arrival at
the ceremony.
Offer to arrange payment for the
officiate.
Offer to arrange payment for the
transportation company.
Offer the first toast to the couple.
Make it flattering to the bride, romantic, and witty!
Offer to help in any other way. Calm
anyone who seems stressed.
Arrange the bride and groom's
departure. Make sure it goes smoothly.
Offer to return the groom's formalwear
if necessary.
Deliver a message to the brides
parents from the newlyweds thanking them for the fantastic celebration.
Being asked to be Maid of Honor or one of
the Bridesmaids is meant to be an honor. Since you are thought of as one of the
bride's closest friends, it is only natural that you would be willing to help.
Offer your assistance whenever possible, do not complain that you do not like
the dresses, and offer moral support whenever possible! The bride will
appreciate your assistance and cooperation!
Assist Bride in choosing a dress
Assist Bride in choosing Bridesmaid
dresses
Confirm timely delivery of bridesmaid
dresses*
Help with little organizational
details if asked.
Help with invitation addressing
Help with making favors
Maid of Honor and bridesmaids host a
bridal shower
Let guest know here couple is
registered*
Help the bride get dressed on her
wedding day*.
Hold groom's ring on wedding day*.
Hold Bride's bouquet during vows*
Straighten bride's veil and train when
necessary*
Help bride in any way possible, before
and during the wedding.
Offer moral support whenever
necessary.* = traditionally Maid of Honor responsibilities.